Should One Get Married Anyway....

Lately life's been great...having discovered that I can manifest things by merely thinking of them (curtesy of The Secret)...everything has been wonderful...only one problem...when the Genie says "Your Wish Is My Command"...I realised that...realistically...I have everything...a good home...great parents...a job I love....financially satisfied...good friends...food on the table...blah..blah..blah....there was only one thing left...and that is to manifest the perfect man for the perfect marriage....

Having read too many books on the subject of Men and Women...it's been hard to actually ask for the perfect man...because..simply...I know the difference between Men and Women...and so..the Perfect Man...would still be....A Man...which meant...he is a man who's priority is his job not the woman in his life...when he's doing something..he'll be thinking of that one thing that he's doing rather than the woman in his life....emotions are things that are locked up and never spoken about...he'll love sports, his buddies and hanging out with them is more fun than the woman in his life...the list of differences between Men and Women is huge..not to mention endless....I see it in all couples...I see it with my parents...I see it with my married friends...and the bottom line is...the differences that exist only seem to bother the women...not the men...the men are just wondering most of the time why the women are so bugged and over emotional...especially when it comes to men's lack of understanding when women want to share...while men just want to play volleyball or something! In case any man is reading this...don't you know it's insulting to have you prefer to hang out with your friends on weekends than with the wife! Duh!

True...it's a fact of life that we all are supposed to end up getting married...but would you get married if you knew the flaws of the whole situation before you even got to say "I do"?