Let's Talk About Sex
Over the past week or so, I've had to listen to a few wives bitch about their unfaithful husbands...now Ladies...don't go assuming that this is typical Kuwaiti thing...not true...in one week..I had an American women complain to me that after 20 years of marriage she realized he's been unfaithful...chats with women on the internet, meets up with them, sleeps with them and then transfers STD (sexually transmited disease) to her...so much so..that she was told that she can never have kids because of the STD...ok...let's take a moment to absorb that...The wife can never have kids because the husband was unfaithful and gave her a sexually transmitted disease...my God that sucks!...Hold on a second...don't think it's just an American thing...the other nationalities of the unfaithful husbands included but were not limited to a Kuwaiti, a Jordanian, a Lebanese, an Egyptian, etc....so...let's be clear...we can't label here...it's a universal problem...and of course some women would say...Men SUCK..but there's got to be a reason..isn't there?
Now get this, according to science, women have approximately 20,000 nerve endings...uhhmm...well...you know...down there...Therefore when women have orgasms it's a bloody mind blowing experience...versus the man...who aint got the 20,000 nerves...in fact...it's been observed that a women's orgasm is 100 times stronger than any man's orgasm....so...(and in order to justify men's behavior)...consider this..Is a man's continuous run around to get extra orgasms a simple mathematical equation of him trying to catch up with a women's 20,000 nerve ending orgasm?
You think?
posted by MissCosmoKuwait @ 10:23 PM
21 Comments:
Lol i think u have somthing there! Great post luv :*
I would think that if a woman's orgasm is 100 times stronger than a man's then, women are the ones that should be on the hunt for sex.
For example, a person would rather go back to a restaurant where they had a great meal than one that is mediocre. Don't you all crave sushi because it is 'mind-blowing'? as opposed to boiled rice which is blah?
Which brings us to your first point about men cheating. Yes women cheat to, but your point is about men cheating, and I have no statistics, but I think I can safely say that men cheating is a bigger phenomena than men cheating.
Now what are the reasons behind this? Is it because men are less emotional? Feel less guilt? Shouldn't men want sex 100 times less than women according to the study?
yeah
and why on earth she wants kids from that sick head!!!
mako 3ala being single la men labo abohom..
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no one said it's a kuwaiti men thing, it's general actually, it's almost becomming normal that a married guy has an affair while his wife is expected to sit home and cook and clean while he screws other girls, I just wonder how long will a woman cook and clean for? and what's it like for the other girl who's being screwed by a married man? I wonder
"after 20 years of marriage"
umm.. isn't it because women just get older and uglier? :/ (in the man's eyes?)
Sponty, who cooks and cleans now adays? We hire people to do these jobs. While the husband screws other women.. The wife screws other men (or women) too
Yup, it's not men's issue. It's a lot more complicated.. infidelity became something very easy hal yomain..
I find it very disgusting. what ever happened to commitments in this world?
Don't be too harsh on men. I love them! Despite all the pain, the suffering and the hearbreaks they cause to us, women.
So you say a women's orgasm is 100 times stronger than any man's orgasm.. hmm.. Interesting. No I don't think they're trying to catch up.. Not at all.. It's how their body works. How God created them (with a brain and a penis but only enough blood to run one at a time)
shisawoon misakeen?
and they say i7na nagseen 3agil ow deen lol
PS. I'm no man-hater.
paps why do you have to say you dont hate men many times,, don't all men love women and all women love men no matter what they are going through with them or what they say to others about them !!
:) its just natural sweet heart to love the other gender.. even sometime you someone babbling all the time about a guy and she go seeks help from another male!!
me to i love those creatures but cheating is way not included in how they are..this is all controled by every single human being BRAIN!
and yes sweet heart there are alot out there washing and cooking and cleaning for their men, without maids or anyone to help.
talk about missing the whole point in the comments
3al3omoom .. way i see it, a person who cheats can only cheat for one reason, and that reason only: lack of faith
personally, its abt faith in god .. for someone else, it could be faith in a future, sancity of marriage or something of the sort
point being, there are no reasons because a reason put in a circumstance becomes an excuse
I agree with Temy.
-its been ages since i 1st tried to publish this 2nd comment bas ma sar,, fa here goes-
papillona
u said "and they say i7na nagseen 3agil ow deen lol"
im not sure who "they" refers to here, but im gonna go ahead and assume its men in general.. abashrech, its wrong
it was il imam 3ali who said it.. and it doesnt mean what u have used it to imply, fa raja'an y3ni etha menty gad elshaghla ya 7abatha lo enich ma ete6aregain laha
what it means is: nagesat 3agel, in the sense that emotions overtake the role of rational thinking .. case in point: mothers and the relationship with their children
o nagesat deen .. in the sense that at certain periods of time, tasge6 ba3th el takaleef wel furooth 3ala el bent
for next time, nasee7at okho look into what ur saying lena kel kelma ma7soba 3alaich
- apologies ms cosmo for space
Temetwir, الكلام اللي قلته صحيح بس اسلوبك في الطرح غلط كان المفروض تآخذها بسلاسة أكثر, الهجومية في الاسلوب ماراح تفيد أبداً
ولك كل الشكر
"raja'an"
"ya 7abatha"
"nasee7at okho"
"kel kelma ma7soba 3alaich"
shfeeh 'il isloob' nunu?
aw bel a7ra, ay hejomeya te7achain 3anha 7athretech?
fract..good point...so you do agree that because a women's orgasm far supasses that of a man..then men think about sex more that women...ahhh...it's good to know that I'm on the right track!..:)
DR..thanks love...and I agree with Temy too!
Miya...actually the fact that a women's orgasm is 100 times stronger means that once it's over...then I'd say she's pretty satisfied...i.e. you eat a good meal and your full...but (in the case of men)..have an appetizer and you still want more...sa7?..:)..(glad to see you around babe..:)
Judy...habeebti...I know it's so easy to go swearing at men...but honestly..I didn't intend this post to be about bashing men..I just honestly want to understand/justify why they are unfaithful...and of course I do honestly believe that not all men are like that...(well..at least...hopefully)..:)
spont...well...I was once asked after knowing such a story whether I would prefer to be the wife or the mistress....and I blurtted out that I'd rather be the mistress...being the deceived wife I expect is the worst feeling of all..
3baid...not true...some of these women were drop dead gorgeous and yet still had unfaithful husbands!
Paps...I beg to differ habeebti..I believe unfaithfulness is one of the oldest issues in the world...the only difference nowadays is that women talk about it openly rather than pretend their husbands are perfect! (I never doubted that you're a man hater dear..:)...why would we be bitching about Cupid being an idiot if we were man haters...LOL!)
temy...thanks for always knowing the point..:)...and yes..you're right about faith in God...but sadly...some people consider it two completley different issues...i.e. the Kuwaiti husband who was unfaithful had just come back from Hajj...so much for his faith! and don't worry about the space..I've taken a lot of your space in the past too..so 7'eth ra7tek..:)
NuNu...hello?..you didn't comment on the post....
MissCosmo
Hello dear ;-)
please allow me to reply to some comments here..
Judy,
You can't be serious, are you? ;-p You're actually explaining to me what's "natural"?
I thought people will get the humor within. Obviously enough, no one (so far) did. hehehe you're cute. So anyway,
'okhoy' Temetwir,
Shokran jazeelan 3ala nasay7ik il thameena. I'm not surprised about your comment. I'm kinda used to the way you react by now.
(1) Awalan, When I said "they", I was referring to those who use this 7adeeth as a reason to disqualify women from any position that is considered a threat to those who can't realize the fact the women "can do it" too.
(2) Thaniyan, I know exactly what "naqisat 3aqil wa deen" means. So there was no need for your explanation (not to me) as I have studied Islamic Political Thought and I know hal 7adeeth ow 3arfa shlon il jama3at faserta but let's not go there. Why not? Because my comment was clear as I was making fun of the people I meantioned in paragraph (1).
(3) When NuNu said isloob hijoomi. Ma aloomha. WHY? le'annik inta 3awadtna 3ala hal 6areeqa.. Ya3ni you choose those phrases:
"raja'an"
"ya 7abatha"
"nasee7at okho"
"kel kelma ma7soba 3alaich"
bas bil nihaya inta ga3id (itzif) ow tabi tafrith your point ghsib 6eeb. Perhaps, to you it sounds nice and indicates sort of an advice.
Isn't that what you mean NuNu?
Oh and just to make things clear: I can talk about anything I want. ya 7abatha ow ma 7abatha.. hatha rayik, bas ma yinferith 3alai :-)
3azeezi*, If it annoys you that much. You can always (tghith il nithar) 3anna or skip it :-)
Thank you for your time
PS. MissCosmo, sorry for the long comment.
PSS. I'm trying to use more smiley faces that could give some indications about the way I'm responding.
* I mean it ;-)
Yup! Papi that was what I meant..
Temetwir I can sense here, "etha menty gad elshaghla ya 7abatha lo enich ma ete6aregain laha" Qadir min el hijoomiya.. Latgis 3alaina eb kelmat 7abatha lo! Hathi mu shar6 etkoon em2addiba Oo ba3dain I'm not talking about "kalemat mo3ayana" esloobik eb kobra hijoomy!!
Misscosmo, well it's an interesting topic! And I mentioned that I agreed with teme except for "el 6ar7 bil esloob" =)
papillona
mn kalamech ma farathty enech 3arfa el ma3na lena it came after what u said about how men supposedly operate "the way god created them" 3ala 7asab matfathaltay.
so no, ur comment wasnt clear o mn hal bab gelt asale7lech, laken dam tegolen enech 3arfa el ma3na fa el7amdelah a7la wa7la ba3ad lena thats the point of the comment
regarding hathretich ma3a nunu haanem in the rest of the comment, u guys give urself way too much credit en radat lel sij
tara sarat mn gabel hal 7araka ely kel wa7da yekon betbayenly wejhat nethar neyabatan 3an el thanya wetnayyel el mas'ala zoud .. ma ya7therny al7en belthab6 but im pretty sure one time it was on ur blog nunu and had something to do with suicide
i think u need to realize that im not interested in being ur friend nor am i trying to be ur enemy .. i also think u need to realize that i dont want u to be a friend nor an enemy
fa balaash sowalef enta tagsid chethe o gelt chethak 3ashan madri sheno o enta ely 3awadtna o u dont sound nice o eslobek hejomy..
next time, ask urself: does 3ali care what we think of what he said?
the answer is always no, fa mn teshofeen ro7ech meltay shway to a "yes" 3erfy ena ma 3endich salfa :)
paps i got it ... but that was an introduction to that "women do wash and clean while their guy is working with others"
BTW: almost every thing you say is filled with humor, i mean honestly i can't even remember how blogging was before having your since of humor.. you simply make my day with the laughs you draw.
Bottom line: girls shouldn't really bother about if the guy would cheat or not, every guy knows if he cheat he will lose his women.. and she will know sooner or later so if he really wants to keep his women he knows how to do it.. else than that no women should spent any time with a guy who can't control him self and be a man!
Misscosmo: Yeah but why bother in knowing if he is faithful or not !!!
ya 3amy ! its just a waste of time you know because these creatures :P can change in less than a second if their personalit allows them, and we "women" can never tell unless they change and we get hit.
personally i wouldn't even bother about it, he cheated or not; he'll regret it sooner or later.
So MissCosmo, what do you do? If a woman finds out that her partner has given her STD after 20 years what does she do?
What could she have done? Should we trust anyone at all?
unfaithful case etseer lama il wa7d e6eeg chabda meen wayeh il thanyy o tabdy 7ayaat'hom etseer bs mojamalaat, and this beacuse of many reasons....! soo what i want to say is.. if love exists, there will not be any "Kheyana".
au revoir...
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